Nokanyo Ndlovu

Partnering with you on your journey to restoration and wholeness

I am Nokanyo Ndlovu, a Counseling Psychologist and an Imago Therapist, and I am registered with the Health Professions Council of South Africa (HPCSA). I am very passionate about providing therapeutic services to the community with the aim of restoring wellness and wholeness, allowing people not just to ‘exist’ but to ‘thrive’. I am partnering with individuals, couples, families, and groups who are experiencing psychological problems and relationship challenges. My goal is to provide a safe, conducive, and confidential space for people to work through their challenges with the assistance of a trained therapist.

I host a Christian podcast, ‘From Our Heart To Yours’, that focuses on strengthening and empowering marriages and romantic relationships. Episodes are uploaded every Sunday afternoon on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Simplecast.

I am also the Chairperson and one of the founding members of Sinawe Foundation, an organization founded in response to the call for South Africans to fight against the gender-based violence epidemic. The organization offers psycho-social, legal, and spiritual support to victims of gender-based violence.

COUNSELING AND PSYCHOTHERAPY

Individual Psychotherapy Grief counseling Career counseling Premarital counseling Couples therapy Psychological Assessments

SUPPORT GROUPS AND ADVOCACY

Men, women, and youth support group programs Gender Based Violence and Femicide advocacy

WORKSHOPS AND SEMINARS

Corporate workshops and seminars on mental health Workshops and seminars on family relationships

R950.00

Individual Consultation

6o-minute session
Medical aid rates apply

R1350.00

Couples Consultation

90-minute session
Medical aid rates apply

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JOIN THE BUS

2023/07/19 12:20 PM

Join the bus. An African proverb tells us, if you want to go fast, go alone, but if you want to go far, go together.

2023/07/06 02:07 PM

When the runners set on their journey, the goal is to cross the finish line, and that is what keeps them going through the hills and valleys. Similarly, in marriage, the goal is 'till death us do part. Seeing as marriage is something that will influence and affect one’s life both in this world and in the world to come, surely it makes sense that one should do all in their power, or at least play their part, to ensure that their marriage works. And this is where intentionality and consciousness play a role. And of course, the hard work that must accompany any intended success.

2023/06/27 10:00 AM

Beloved lovebirds, I am so excited to be bringing to your hearts season 2, with the theme "The Conscious Relationship - Increasing Pleasure and Decreasing Pain." Hearts Courageous is inviting you to come along and be part of this experience. This is, after all, From Our Heart to Yours. Keep your eyes peeled on my Facebook page, Nokanyo Lulu Ndlovu, as well as our website, www.nokanyondlovu.com, for news of when episode 1 will be uploaded. In the meantime, follow us on Spotify and Apple Podcasts so that you don't miss a thing.

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Intimacy is a trauma trigger, and what happened in you because of what happened to you will be played out in your relationship. In this virtual session, we will be looking at adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) and their effect on relationships, how the relationship can be a vessel for healing, and how therapy supports this process.Read More

Date: 2023/04/02 04:00 PM
Location Online Event

Price:R0.00

79 Crompton Street, New Germany, Pinetown, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

Nokanyo Ndlovu MA Counseling Psychology (Rhodes University) MA Social Policy Programmes (UKZN)

Nokanyo Ndlovu

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JOIN THE BUS

Running with perseverance the marriage race: Lessons from the Comrades' Marathon

THE CONSCIOUS RELATIONSHIP - INCREASING PLEASURE AND DECREASING PAIN

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Nokanyo Ndlovu

About

Services

COUNSELING AND PSYCHOTHERAPY

SUPPORT GROUPS AND ADVOCACY

WORKSHOPS AND SEMINARS

Rates

Individual Consultation

Couples Consultation

Listen Now

Podcast

Blog

JOIN THE BUS

Running with perseverance the marriage race: Lessons from the Comrades' Marathon

THE CONSCIOUS RELATIONSHIP - INCREASING PLEASURE AND DECREASING PAIN

Events

Contact